Intimacy
is not who you let touch you—
it’s who you text at 3 a.m.
about dreams that make your heart race
and fears that keep you up at night.
It’s giving your full attention
when ten others are tugging at your light.
It’s the name that echoes in your mind
no matter how loud the world gets.
Marry a man
who is emotionally intelligent—
who doesn’t shut down when things get hard
but steps in,
soft and strong,
to fix what’s broken
without breaking you.
A man who listens without ego,
communicates without blame,
and still respects you
when the room is thick with disagreement.
A man who holds your storm
and never lets you feel alone in it.
Please,
fall in love with the one
who genuinely wants you—
not just when you’re perfect,
but when you’re tired,
complicated,
and moody.
Someone who waits patiently for your message,
reaches out after the fight,
and still chooses you
even when it would be easier not to.
It’s not about who’s interested.
It’s about who’s brave—
brave enough to love you loudly,
to pursue you consistently,
to choose you deliberately,
again and again,
with words that don’t lie
and actions that never stutter.
Because when a man is kind,
gentle,
and rooted in respect,
your nervous system exhales.
Your body heals.
Your soul blooms.
That’s why some women
glow differently—
not just because they’re in love,
but because they finally feel safe.
Valued.
Seen.
At peace.
So choose a partner who is good for you.
Not good for your parents.
Not good for your image.
Not good for your bank account.
Good
for
you.
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